I'm like a kite without a string and a candle without a wick.

The negative side:

Kite without a string-- No security, no direction and can't function properly.

Candle without a wick-- No centre and purpose in my life.

The positive side:

Kite without a string-- I can flow freely to where God wants me to be.

Candle without a wick-- I will not burn out or burn myself.